爱妈妈的老儿子

送毛毛回家的路上,因为我抢了毛毛一个饺子,她再也不给我了。我饿得要命,一直叫着“饿,饿,我要吃饺子!”这个时候,豆豆主动拿着他正在吃的饺子,递给我。我感动坏了,豆豆真爱妈妈,对妈妈真好!

上周送豆豆和奶奶去教会,豆豆有点不开心呢,所以只要能带就带他一起:)老妈说得对,“小孩谁和他联系多,就和谁好!” 今天豆豆非要我推他,不让奶奶推,我心里好开心!我好爱我老儿子,从头到脚,每一根汗毛!

豆豆从小到大从来没咬过我,最近咬也是把嘴巴放在那里比划一下,舍不得咬!老儿子是暖男!

毛毛经典语录

毛毛很少评价别人,昨天饿了要吃东西,季承讲她,她都要藏起来吃,被她爸爸看到了我拿的巧克力面包,吓得哇哇大哭。我问她是不是怕爸爸,她回答说:”因为爸爸很rude。”说实话,我有点震惊。她竟然这样形容爸爸。我赶紧问问毛毛,妈妈是不是很rude, 因为我有时候哄小孩心烦意乱的时候也会大声讲她,她说妈妈不rude。我的心里也是一紧,孩子慢慢长大了,什么都知道,我一定得努力树立个好形象。以后工作会更忙,一定回家之前告诉自己,放下工作的一切事情,耐心地温和地对待孩子,所有的品质都是耳濡目染的。

很久以前毛毛还不经意地讲,“爸爸那么懒惰。”因为季承天天不早起床,看来孩子真的什么都知道。想糊弄,不可能,每个人都管好自己得了。

某位同学,要反思一下,为什么在孩子心里树立了这个形象。

前几天去东海岸,路上开始下雨,我说:“可能等下雨就停了。” 毛毛立刻教育我说,“如果你确定的事情你可以说,如果你不确定的事情,你不可以说。”:( Teacher Fiji教他们的。看来我以后要像毛毛学习:)

两个糊涂蛋

IC丢了两个月了,因为孩子小学报名,去移民局补办。已经第二次丢了,要交$300罚金,关键是三个月都没有IC, 也没有temporary IC,有什么事还要提前一天到移民局去拿一个文件,我欲哭无泪。结果就和季承唠叨,晕,他竟然当场找到了。这不就是两个糊涂蛋吗?之前让他找,没找到。一个拿了别人的IC连个月还不知道呢,另一个IC丢了两个月不着急。买房子,给毛毛报小学,做义工,什么事都不上心,稀里糊涂地!季承最近两天才着急,不觉得晚了点嘛?我几年前着急,但是空想,没有行动。哎!

以后要改变,要更认真一点。

Teaching Methodology-to be updated

Prepare for work:

remember heads name search internet

Improve students’ confidence and speaking skills

1.  adopt Rivervale Primary School’s Special Student Development Programme:  create a platform to develop students to be confident speakers by providing them the opportunity to share stories, recite poems or present slides on interesting topics on the stage to their friends in the morning.

Pretask: seek parents’ help to prepare short speeches or stories

During the task: nominate two-three students to give a short talk or speech before class starts every lesson. The topic ranges from self-introduction to keeping pets, depending on students’ interests.

Take a video of the students

Post-task: feedback to students and parents

Personal Mission Statements to be updated

 

Personal Mission statement:

Career

Focus all abilities and efforts on the task at hand

 

做人

Be humble

Listen more than speak

 

Relationship with husband

Love him more and respect him

put me in his shoes

first understand then seek to be understood

 

Filial Duty:

Contact parents more

Buy small gifts to them through taobao

Relationship with my sister:

care more about Shen Wei

 

 

 

Parental Role

Set example to children ( clean, values)

Be patient with kids try to be more understanding than being authoritative

Others:

Create a clean and orderly home for family

Personal Statement 1 Parental Role

Be patient with kids and try to be more understanding than being authoritative.

Respect children as individuals.

我明显感到星期六陪完毛毛玩游乐场玩水,陪豆豆游泳、下楼和呼呼玩,陪豆豆睡觉了陪毛毛聊天按摩,一大早上的都和我拜拜,叫“妈妈早点回来。”多用心陪伴孩子真是不一样!用心

 

人无远虑必有近忧 - 铭记

最近为了毛毛报小学的事情伤透了脑筋。 家附近1公里完全没有好学校。只能冒险报1.5公里的compassvalue primary school, 但愿可以进吧。 另外一个选择就是搬家。

两件事情没有做, 后悔莫及:

  1. 买房子的时候没有考虑附近的学校
  2. 没有提前两年去做义工, 真心对不起我的宝贝女儿。

ps, 当初买房子时候,没有搞清楚政府补助的利弊, 结果拿了政府的钱, 导致5年不能bto, 错过了买新房的最佳时机。

人生不能回头重来,但以后一定要看得远一点,把事情计划好。

不能再浑浑噩噩的过日子了。

SV experience in SAF–I am a soldier!!!

I completed the Basic Training (26/03-07/04) in Singapore Army Forces from 26 March to 7 April. I have really mulled over some reflections as listed below.

Firstly, I have raised my awareness of time management and thus I will improve my effectiveness as well as efficiency and complete

tasks within stipulated time in the future. Time really matters.

Secondly, during the training, I discovered my faults and failings, and have decided to strengthen hands-on skills. I have always been very slow in assembling and disassembling weapons simply due to the lack of hands-on skills.

Thirdly, I have got to meet lots of excellent soldiers, such as Gen, a young lady with strong leadership skills and problem-solving skills which have influenced me a lot.

I really enjoyed the trip to Tekong, such as sleeping on the ground, or with a tent, individual walk through the forest, learn the first aid, leopard crawling etc. However, if you asked me whether I would like to go to Tekong again and the answer is a definite “no”.

In conclusion, the experience in the army makes my really physically and mentally stronger. Thanks to the SAF for giving me such a great opportunity!

My favorite buddy!